I’m not lying when I say that I’ve never met anyone like him before. He is spontaneous, wild, sexual and somehow… safe and reliable. Swiping right on him on a dating app was a pure stroke of luck because he wasn’t the type of guy…

I guess being a part of some community was always a big deal to me because I grew up as a complete outsider. I was heavily bullied for 9 years, and it certainly impacted my life in not so great ways. I must have realized that I was bisexual around…

While I am proud to be Latvian, I’m embarrassed to see how homophobic this country is. As I walk down the street, I see a coach advertising people to vote for a natural family. A union between a man and a woman, they say, without realizing how truly homophobic and…

Let me say this — I am sick of porn that centers around male pleasure while discarding female pleasure. Every video features a cumshot or a creampie while only a small fraction of them feature female orgasms. Why is that? Don’t get me wrong — I love porn, but finding…

I can’t tell you how many times I have woken up from a dream of cum dripping out of my pussy as I realize that I’ve fucked someone I’m not even remotely attracted to. In the dream, I feel embarrassed, yet satisfied. Maybe there is something arousing about cumming on…

I often wonder if I’ll be taken seriously by other writers because I’m a sex worker. I write under the same name to keep the credibility and show my community that I can be a part of them while advocating for them as well. But what about the other side…

There’s a common responsibility that anti porn activists like to push upon adult content creators. Making sure that kids around the world have a healthy understanding of sex. Yet, the topic of sex and sexuality makes them feel so awkward that they often skip ‘the talk’ all together and preach…

I question everything about my feelings on men. What even is genuine, and what is some stupid trauma response that I developed? Do I really like him, or do I just want a father figure in my life? I don’t know. I’m confused. Two years of therapy have done wonders…